Picked Before Prepared

Weekly Edition #32: September 3rd, 2025

Verse I Like:

“Speak up for those who cannot speak for themselves, for the rights of all who are destitute. Speak up and judge fairly; defend the rights of the poor and needy.”

— Proverbs 31:8–9 (NIV)

Weekly Dose

What is one of the biggest risks to our civilization today? There is a phenomenon in the Western World known as Population Collapse. This is when civilized countries experience declining birth rates and the slow drift toward obsolescence. It’s a real issue. No society can thrive, let alone survive, when it stops reproducing.

But the deeper question is why? Why have birth rates fallen so dramatically? Why are fewer people having children?

There are many reasons, but in my estimation, the most common reasons share a pattern—they’re self-serving. People want to “focus on their career,” “enjoy their youth,” “travel first,” and so on. The list is endless. And sure, having kids is a sacrifice. But what isn’t given enough thought is that you sacrifice something either way.

The generational unwillingness to accept responsibility before feeling “ready” leads to rampant immaturity. Life-changing responsibilities rarely arrive in your time, and feeling unprepared is normal. But, bearing responsibility before you're ready is what causes growth. It stretches your limits, expands your capacity, and forces you to become more of what you could be.

Responsibility isn’t a burden. It’s a blessing.

Quotes I Like:

“The time is always right to do what is right.”

— Martin Luther King Jr.

“Start where you are. Use what you have. Do what you can.”

— Arthur Ashe

“The willingness to take on responsibility is the essence of maturity.”

— Jordan Peterson

Mane Message

The biblical account of Abigail and David shows us the power of wisdom, clarity, and bearing a burden that was not yours to carry.

David and his men are in the wilderness. Hungry, tired, battle-worn. He sends messengers to a wealthy man named Nabal, asking for provisions. It’s not a demand, but a request made in goodwill. David had protected Nabal’s shepherds in the past, and he expected a gesture of hospitality in return.

But Nabal refuses, and worse, insults David. He mocks his reputation and dismisses the request entirely.

As expected, David is furious. He gathers 400 men and marches toward Nabal’s estate, ready to wipe out his entire household in vengeance.

That’s when we meet Abigail.

She’s Nabal’s wife. And though she bears no guilt for his foolishness, she steps up. She loads up provisions, rides out to meet David, and throws herself at his feet. She takes the blame. She pleads for peace. She gives what her husband would not.

Her requests are heard. David praises her wisdom and blesses her for keeping him from shedding blood in a moment of anger. Soon after, Nabal dies of natural causes, and eventually, Abigail becomes David’s wife.

The story isn’t only about diplomacy, but discernment. Abigail saw what her husband would not and she decided to take a chance to stop a disaster before it began. She wasn’t asked. She wasn’t obligated. But she acted.

You may not be the one who caused the harm, but you can still be the one who makes it right.

Weekly Ponder

How many disasters unfold simply because no one stepped in early enough to stop them?

Are you waiting to be appointed, or are you willing to be available?

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